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“For one shall grasp, and one resign,
And God shall make the balance good.”

To grasp is a simple act enough; but to do so delicately, reverently, without forcing one’s preferences on those of another, may not always be so simple. Thane was not a Goth nor a Vandal; by choice he would have sought to preserve the amenities of life; but a meek man he was not, and the thing he now desired was, he considered, well worth the sacrifice of such small pretensions as his in the direction of unselfishness.

The founding of a family in its earliest stages is essentially an egoistic and ungenerous proceeding. Even Mr. Withers must have been self-seeking once or twice in his life, else had he never had a son to mourn. So, since life in this world is for the living, and his own life was likely to go on many years after Mr. Withers had been gathered to the reward of the righteous, Thane worked himself up to the grasping-point at last.

He was never able to reflect with any pride on the way in which he did it, and perhaps it is hardly fair to report him in a conversation that would have had its difficulties for almost any man; but his way of putting his case was something like the following,–Mr. Withers guilelessly opening the way by asking, “You will be coming East, I hope, before long, Mr. Thane?”

“Possibly,” said Thane, “I may run on to New York next winter.”

“If you should, I trust you will find time to come a little further East and visit me? I could add my niece’s invitation to my own, but she and her mother will probably have gone South for her mother’s health. However, I will welcome you for us both,–I and my books, which are all my household now.”

“Thanks, sir, I should be very glad to come; though your books, I’m afraid, are the sort that would not have much to say to me.”

“Come and see, come and see,” Mr. Withers pressed him warmly. “A ripe farewell should always hold the seeds of a future meeting.”

“That is very kindly said,” Thane responded quickly; “and if you don’t mind, I will plant one of those seeds right now.”

“So do, so do,” the old gentleman urged unsuspiciously.

“Your niece”–Thane began, but could see his way no further in that direction without too much precipitancy. Then he backed down on a line of argument,–“I need not point out the fact,” etc.,–and abandoned that as beset with too many pitfalls of logic, for one of his limited powers of analysis. Fewest words and simplest would serve him best. “It is hardly likely,” then he said, “that your niece’s present state of feeling will be respected as long as it lasts; there will be others with feelings of their own. Her loss will hardly protect her all her life from–she will have suitors, of course! Nature is a brute, and most men, young men, are natural in that respect,–in regard to women, I mean. I don’t want to be the first fool who rushes in, but there will be a first. When he arrives, sir, will you let me know? If any man is to be heard, I claim the right to speak to her myself; the right, you understand, of one who loves her, who will make any sacrifice on earth to win her.”

Mr. Withers remained silent. He had a sense of suffocation, as of waves of heat and darkness going over him. The wind sang in his ears, shouted and hooted at him. He was stunned. Presently he gasped, “Mr. Thane! you have not surely profaned this solemn journey with such thoughts as these?”

“A man cannot always help his thoughts, Mr. Withers. I have not profaned my thoughts by putting them into words, till now. I cannot do them justice, but I have made them plain. This is not a question of taste or propriety with me, or even decency. It is my life,–all of it I shall ever place at the disposal of any woman. I am not a boy; I know what I want and how much I want it. The secret of success is to be in the right place at the right time: here is where I ask your help.”